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Exiting Nirvana

A Daughter's Life with Autism

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Exiting Nirvana details Clara Claiborne Park's continuing efforts to have her daughter Jessy 'exit Nirvana,' develop as an artist, and connect with our world.
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    • Publisher's Weekly

      Starred review from February 26, 2001
      Thirty-four years after The Siege, Park's account of her autistic daughter's first eight years, she delineates Jessy's journey from being a barely verbal child to an adult fascinated with language and the mind. According to Park, Jessy exhibits many of the idiosyncratic mathematical obsessions associated with autism, but has fewer verbal skills than other autistic people. A superb artist, she stuns viewers with her dynamic paintings, which sell well. Her stable and happy life consists of painting; working in the mailroom at Williams College, where until recently her mother taught English; cooking; and doing most of the housework in the home she shares with her aging parents. Though a blessing, these achievements are fragile; Jessy can never live alone, she speaks English as if it were a second language and, equipped with even less understanding of emotions than most of us, cannot truly grasp nuanced human interaction. Park has been both mother and anthropologist, recording verbal and social breakthroughs and setbacks, administering praise and succor. She describes the serene insularity of the autist's "Nirvana," and observes collisions between the autistic and external worlds. She's urged Jessy to enter, "yet never entirely," the extraordinary dailiness inhabited by nonautistic people. In incisive, often exquisite prose, Park affords entry into Jessy's and her own remarkable journey between the two. Illus. (Mar. 8)Forecast:Oliver Sacks, who featured Jessy in his PBS series
      The Mind Traveller, has contributed an enthusiastic introduction to this deserving book, which will appeal to readers of Karyn Seroussi and Bernard Rimland's
      Unraveling the Mystery of Autism and Pervasive Developmental Disorder (2000) and Temple Grandin and Oliver Sacks's
      Thinking in Pictures (1996); expect healthy sales.

    • Library Journal

      November 15, 2000
      Williams College English professor Park continues the story she began in The Siege (1982), relating the experiences of her now-grown autistic daughter.

      Copyright 2000 Library Journal, LLC Used with permission.

    • Booklist

      February 1, 2001
      Park's second book on her daughter Jessy (the first appeared in 1967, when Jessy was eight) is a perceptive, detailed, and empathetic account not of autism but of the experience of autism. Jessy has enjoyed major practical aid and loving support from her parents, many "Jessy-friends" (students and others who have lived with the Parks), and various teachers and researchers. Clara and her husband learned early the importance of "shared attention" with Jessy but were surprised to discover later that they had been unconsciously teaching her approaches. Jessy was interested in numbers, patterns, and living by routines. Disrupting those routines could lead to violent objections and wailing desolation. The chapters on Jessy's use of words, her sounds when speaking, and the use of personal contracts to motivate improvement in controlling problems are especially engaging. The account in them of Jessy's rare birthday wish for a wrist golf-counter that she used with the points listed in the contracts is delightful. A warm, levelheaded, neither overly optimistic nor overly glorified book that proves very rewarding.(Reprinted with permission of Booklist, copyright 2001, American Library Association.)

    • Library Journal

      Starred review from March 1, 2001
      Park's earlier work, The Siege (LJ 11/1/67), was one of the first accounts by a mother of a family's attempts to communicate with an autistic child. In this sequel, Park, a former professor of English at Williams College and a well-known speaker on autism, reviews her daughter Jessy's development over 40 years, recording achievements as well as setbacks. Jessy, now middle-aged, keeps house for her elderly parents, works as a mail clerk, and is a successful artist. Park describes Jessy's ecstatic delight in numerical systems, colors, and categories and the ways that she has channeled these obsessions into her paintings and into routines for daily living. Yet Jessy's social and verbal skills remain incomplete; she continues to have difficulty putting herself in others' situations, understanding different points of view, and expressing feelings. For Park, Jessy's "real achievements are in the realm of the practical, the necessary, the unromanticizable the things that make her employable in the community and useful at home." This beautifully crafted portrait of an autistic adult artist includes color reproductions of Jessy's paintings, with descriptions in her own handwriting. Recommended for all libraries. [Previewed in Prepub Alert, LJ 11/15/00; Park's essay of the same name appeared in the American Scholar and won the Feature Writing category at the 1999 National Magazine Awards. Ed.] Lucille M. Boone, San Jose P.L., CA

      Copyright 2001 Library Journal, LLC Used with permission.

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