A crucial guide to life before—and after—Tinder, IVF, and robots.
What will happen to our notions of marriage and parenthood as reproductive technologies increasingly allow for newfangled ways of creating babies? What will happen to our understanding of gender as medical advances enable individuals to transition from one set of sexual characteristics to another, or to remain happily perched in between? What will happen to love and sex and romance as our relationships migrate from the real world to the Internet? Can people fall in love with robots? Will they? In short, what will happen to our most basic notions of humanity as we entangle our lives and emotions with the machines we have created?
In Work Mate Marry Love, Harvard Business School professor and former Barnard College president Debora L. Spar offers an incisive and provocative account of how technology has transformed our intimate lives in the past, and how it will do so again in the future. Surveying the course of history, she shows how marriage as we understand it resulted from the rise of agriculture, and that the nuclear family emerged with the industrial revolution. In their day, the street light, the car, and later the pill all upended courtship and sex. Now, as we enter an era of artificial intelligence and robots, how will our deepest feelings and attachments evolve?
In the past, the prevailing modes of production produced a world dominated by heterosexual, mostly-monogamous, two-parent families. In the future, however, these patterns are almost certain to be reshaped, creating entirely new norms for sex and romance, and for the construction of families and the raising of children. Steering clear of both techno-euphoria and alarmism, Spar offers a bold and inclusive vision of how our lives might be changed for the better.
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Publisher's Weekly
June 8, 2020
Harvard Business School professor Spar (Wonder Women) probes the historical links between gender, family, technology, and work to understand their implications for the future in this thought-provoking and cautiously optimistic account. Moving chronologically through human history, Spar places the plow’s role in creating the concept of land ownership at the center of female subordination through marriage, and describes the impact of automobiles, the birth control pill, and kitchen appliances on women’s labor at home and in the workplace. Turning to the present, she establishes links between assisted reproductive technologies and the legal and cultural acceptance of same-sex marriage, and claims that smart machines are pushing men out of the workforce without an understanding of their new gender and social roles. Looking ahead, Spar discusses the implications of integrating robots into people’s work and love lives, how digital personality archives and extended life expectancies might affect social structures, and the importance of addressing inequities caused by differential access to technology. Though the book lands somewhat awkwardly between futurist think piece, gender study, and historical survey, Spar’s explanations of how specific technologies developed are lucid and insightful. Readers will take comfort in this clear-eyed assessment of humanity’s ability to adapt to technological change. -
Library Journal
August 1, 2020
Technology shapes our world, even the things that people may not consider technology today. At one point, the plow was a completely new technology, and Spar (Harvard Business Sch.; Wonder Women) discusses that and other technologies, from agricultural tools to kitchen appliances to smartphone dating apps that have shaped how humans live and interact with each other, and even more so, that have affected how people form relationships, start families, and have careers. Spar includes historical facts, statistics, and pictures throughout the narrative. Many other works are cited, but Spar also includes personal anecdotes into the fold. For example, while she did not personally go through IVF as she wrote about it, she did create online dating profiles in order to write about them first hand. In blending history and educated speculations for the future, Spar has created a relatable nonfiction narrative about how we live with technology. Readers of Spar's other works will want to add this to their reading lists. VERDICT This is a humanizing and unique take on technology is a necessary addition to the genre; Spar's voice included with the history will keep readers engaged in whatcould otherwise be dry information.--Natalie Browning, Longwood Univ. Lib., Farmville, VA
Copyright 2020 Library Journal, LLC Used with permission.
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Library Journal
March 1, 2020
Currently Baker Foundation Professor at Harvard Business School and the former president of Barnard College, Spar (Wonder Women) investigates love in the time of technology. With romance shifting from inline at the movies to online with one's favorite device and medical advances facilitating both gender changes and new ways of procreating, how will our sense of romance and very humanity change?
Copyright 2020 Library Journal, LLC Used with permission.
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